Monday, December 22, 2008
The wait is almost over
Monday, November 3, 2008
Cultivating an attitude of gratitude with teens
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Evangelical teens and sex
Friday, October 17, 2008
A Potpourri of Parenting Possibilities
Thursday, September 25, 2008
the utterance from my heart will give understanding." Psalm 49:3 (NIV)
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Bad news for baggy pants haters...
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Snurf-legal and dangerous new drug
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Girls, girls, girls
“Stop judging by mere appearances, and make a right judgment.” John 7:24
There is nothing new about teenage girls pushing the envelope with their fashion choices. It’s no revelation that the media and the fashion world cater to that rebellion. There are, however, some interesting new ideas about the reasons why girls act the way they do. There are also indications of a turn in the tide for feminism, a step in the right direction (in my opinion).
Check out the articles below (I’ve included a snippet from each one). There’s some thought provoking stuff here. I’ll leave you to your own conclusions. J
Time Magazine: The Truth about Teen Girls
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1840556,00.html
“There are lots of reasons to worry about adolescent girls having sex too early
ABC News: Some Say It’s OK for Girls to Go Wild
http://abcnews.go.com/US/Health/story?id=2798436&page=1
“’Putting up pictures of yourself scantily dressed on MySpace is, in a way, kind of a good sign,’ he said. ‘The good news is that it's somebody who isn't horrified by their appearance. Also if they get some positive response, that can be very supportive.’"
"’Adults think that kids take everything literally -- if [teens] pose in a bikini, they're suddenly sexually active,’ she said. ‘It's odd that adults who are supposed to think more conceptually are thinking so concretely.’"
Parent Dish: It’s Not Bad to be Good
http://www.parentdish.com/2007/07/20/its-not-bad-to-be-good
“I was getting all the wrong attention from men. I wanted them to like me for me, but my "look" wasn't attracting that. I wish someone had been there to guide me, to show me that there was an alternative. (Someone other than my mother that is.) I wish someone was out there making it cool to be good.”
Toronto Star: How the ‘Bad’ Girl Became Good
http://www.thestar.com/living/article/236893
"Looking ‘wild’ and acting ‘wild’ are supposed to be empowering, but more often they lead to misery, especially for young women who quickly learn to put their emotions in deep freeze to do what is expected.”
Friday, September 5, 2008
Talking to teens about TV role models
Friday, August 22, 2008
In God We Trust?
Friday, July 25, 2008
Tender
Tenderize: to make tender, as by pounding or by a chemical process or treatment.
My husband’s family has taken a pounding this week with the passing of my father-in-law. We’ve been talking a lot about the legacy he left, but some of that legacy is yet to come. Just as we are seeing the effects of his life, we are also experiencing the effects of his death.
If you’ve ever had a loved one die, you remember the feeling of first receiving the news. It’s like a kick to the stomach, a punch to the face, and a blow to the heart all at once. Your mind, body and spirit take a beating.
Alongside the tears, I’ve witnessed a “tenderizing” in many family members. Suddenly everyone is much kinder to one another, more attuned to each other’s needs, and more compassionate and caring. There are more hugs and more “I love you”s. There is an abundance of grace and forgiveness.
However, it takes more than a pounding to produce a palatable piece of meat. We’ve all been seasoned by the love and support of friends, and now we will go through the fire of grief. I pray that when we are done, we will be “the aroma of Christ among those who are being saved and those who are perishing” (2 Corinthians 2:15). And hopefully, if we willingly accept the pounding, we will continue to be tender.
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Teens and sexual sin: how to deal
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Something worse than MySpace? (gasp!)
Friday, June 20, 2008
Truth uncovered: There is no money tree!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Katy Perry - I Kissed A Girl
Not my intention
I got so brave, drink in hand
Lost my discretion
It's not what, I'm used to
Just wanna try you on
I'm curious for you
Caught my attention
I kissed a girl and I liked it
The taste of her cherry chap stick
I kissed a girl just to try it
I hope my boyfriend don't mind it
It felt so wrong
It felt so right
Don't mean I'm in love tonight
I kissed a girl and I liked it
I liked it
No, I don't even know your name
It doesn't matter
You're my experimental game
Just human nature
It's not what, good girls do
Not how they should behave
My head gets so confused
Hard to obey
Us girls we are so magical
Soft skin, red lips, so kissable
Hard to resist so touchable
Too good to deny it
Ain't no big deal, it's innocent
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Fathers of all kinds
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Making the most of summer
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
Tween queen for a day
Today's birthday at my house isn't making me feel any younger either. Emma, my "baby", turned 11 and is firmly entrenched in all that is tween. That means Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus, the Jonas Brothers, and a host of other Disney and Nickelodeon stars are pretty big at our house. That also means the teen years are not far off. I think I can FEEL the gray hairs creeping in already!